Posted by jeanne at 10 May 2012

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PatongI’m in Thailand! Yes, another bucket list ‘to do’ has been achieved, and all in a very short time. It’s amazing what you can do in a week, thanks to my wonderful travel agent. So, here I am with hubby, staying in a very nice resort on the western beaches of Phuket. It’s just lovely and such a treat to have a break from work and our daily routine. How blessed we are!

Our main reason for being here is dental work. Hubby needed some major work done and talking with friends lead us to choose Thailand for the dental work, and it really is brilliant, not to mention so much cheaper than at home in Australia. I thought I’d just come along for the trip, I didn’t think I would need any major dental work, just a check up and a clean, but it turns out I need a crown and root canal. Not fun, but we’ll make the most of it while we’re here!

So on our many visits to the dentist we’ve been constantly invited/begged/cajoled to buy from every vendor we pass in the street, and there are so many (as those who’ve been here would know), not to mention the taxi drivers and masseuse girls. I’ve noticed with interest how I react to the different personalities when they’re selling their wares. I don’t like the ones that crowd me, or feel threatening or get loud. I shy away from the pushy massage girls that step in front of us, or the tuk-tuk drivers that want our fare, and the guy that sells DVDs and holds pictures of recent movies in your face so you can’t pass easily.

And it got me thinking about my approach to people as a business, because if you’re like me, I prefer to market my business organically, by word of mouth and through social media, where people have a chance to get to know you a little before deciding to use your services. It’s about trust and connection, not standing at the front of your shop pouncing on every poor soul that wanders past. As a result, I’ve caught myself standing back and watching the taxi drivers, before choosing the quieter more respectful one to drive us back to our resort. I choose the shops I like by observing the owner, if they stand back and give me space, I’ll happily go in. If they stand at the front and hassle me, I walk away. It’s always good to walk in your customer’s shoes for a while. What do you think? How do you like to be treated as a customer?

We’ll be back in Australia in a few days, and boy oh boy, am I looking forward to the cooler weather! Oh, and my biz partner Krishna and I are running our Magnetise Your Brand workshop on the 23rd May, so if you’d like to learn how to market and brand your business in a nice way, without having to yell about it, come along!

‘La-Korn’ or ‘Goodbye’ in Aussie

Jeanne x

Posted by jeanne at 31 January 2012

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Have you ever had a moment in your life that you want to remember and keep forever? You know those rare and amazing moments when time stops and you are in total bliss, surrounded with absolute love? I call them “bottled moments” because I wish I could bottle all the emotion of that moment and open it every so often to re-live the feeling.

I had a moment like that on my 50th birthday, just a few weeks ago.  And I keep re-living it and basking in the bliss of it. It’s that moment that inspired me to write my Gratitude Posts because in that moment I felt so loved, so blessed and I soaked it all up with total abandon and joy. That’s when I really ‘got’ the importance of being loved and I had a burning need to try and give others just a fraction of that feeling.

So thank you for reading my posts and sharing my journey of gratitude. I hope you’ve gotten to know a few special people a little better and I hope that my posts have inspired you to be grateful and to tell those you love that they matter to you, because as human BEings, we all need to receive and give love. It’s why we’re here. To be love.

Below is a video of my ‘bottled moment’, it was a complete surprise to me and I still struggle to find the words to express my thanks to my beautiful friends, family and the gorgeous Goddesses who plotted and planned it. Thank you to beautiful Zoe for videoing it and giving me a bottled moment that I can re-live again and again. It was pure magic. Enjoy, I love you and I am eternally grateful. If you’ve been following along and haven’t left a comment yet, I’d love to hear your gratitude thoughts.

Posted by jeanne at 30 January 2012

Category: That's Life

GirlfriendsDay 30 of the Ultimate Blog Challenge – my theme for this month is gratitude for the special people in my life.

I am gr8ful for you Girlfriends

There’s a group of girls that I’ve known for about 15 years. Our children all went to primary school together and we’ve been friends through all those years. There’s something pretty special about sharing a bit chapter of your life with friends. In the early days we spent a lot of time making craft for the mother’s day stalls and the school fete. I loved those days filled with paint, cellophane and tissue paper! To walk into a brand new school and feel so welcomed was a new experience for me and I will be forever grateful. Over time our kids have grown, all have finished school now and are at uni or out in the world doing their thing and every few weeks us six girls get together for dinner. It’s become a tradition to celebrate our birthdays with each other where we catch up on news and share our lives. I am so grateful for you girls. Thank you for being an important part of my life Dorit, Rita, Gail, Virginia and Margaret. Love you long time beautiful ones x
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Posted by jeanne at 29 January 2012

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Jane CurbishleyDay 29 of the Ultimate Blog Challenge – my theme for this month is gratitude for the special people in my life.

Jane – I am grateful for you

I think you must be my oldest friend Jane! I’ve known you since you were born, 45 years ago. Growing up next door to you was so much fun, you were always a bundle of laughs. I think you’re the happiest person I know! My fondest memories are of us riding around on our bikes, holding our secret club meetings in our hide-away place, eating sugar sandwiches and playing schools. Oh, and those Christmas plays we used to put on for our parents! We spent hours rehearsing and had the loveliest childhood together. I am so grateful that you were our neighbour and even more grateful that we’re still good friends today. Thank you for being you x

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Posted by jeanne at 28 January 2012

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Day 28 of the Ultimate Blog Challenge – my theme for this month is gratitude for the special people in my life.

Sizzle Sisters – I am grateful for you

The Sizzle Sisters is a local Master Mind group I was invited to join last year. These girls have been amazing support for me and my business and I am so grateful for each and every one of them. The dynamics of this group is powerful and has given me a space where I can share anything and know that I’m in a safe space, where I can talk about business and ask for help or advice. Without this group of amazing women I’d be floundering alone trying to find answers and solutions to a million questions and problems. I am grateful for you all: Sue Murphy, Annie Infinite, Kama Frankling, Krishna Everson, Natalie Hennessey, Zoe Wyatt, Toni-Louise Forsyth, Kim Keroheke, Leanne Francia, Hayley Green, Jen Forster, Karen Clarke, Renee Veldman-Tentorini and Debbie Ducic. Cheers girls, I wonder what awesomeness we can create this year! Love you!
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Posted by jeanne at 27 January 2012

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Carolyn SheatherDay 27 of the Ultimate Blog Challenge – my theme for this month is gratitude for the special people in my life.

Carolyn – I am gr8ful for you

Carolyn, your are such a joy to be around! I love love love that I found you and now I get to attend your pastel art class every week. To take three hours (ok, sometimes it’s closer to four) out of my week, drive into the hills and hang out with you and a bunch of gorgeous girls to paint, draw, create, learn and appreciate art is absolute bliss! It’s an escape from every-day life and something I am incredibly grateful for. You are a brilliant teacher, you bring out the best in each of us and you just keep pushing us, ever so gently, a little more each week and I love the challenge. I am grateful for you, for your faith in me and my inner artist. Thanks to you I no longer “should on myself” and I love having you in my life. Thank you for the art Carolyn x.

Posted by jeanne at 26 January 2012

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Kylie PatchettDay 26 of the Ultimate Blog Challenge – my theme for this month is gratitude for the special people in my life.

Kylie – I am grateful for you

Kylie, I am just loving your Tall Poppy Project and I am so grateful that you trusted me to help make it come to life. Your message is powerful and potent and it comes from your heart. I am grateful that you’re my friend and I am really looking forward to getting to know you better. I love that you have a beautiful message to share and the passion with which you share it. I love your dedication, your commitment and your unwavering love for life. I love that you see beauty in everything and that you are showing it to the world with honesty and vulnerability. I am grateful for you Kylie Patchett!
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Posted by jeanne at 25 January 2012

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Brad and NicoleDay 25 of the Ultimate Blog Challenge – my theme for this month is gratitude for the special people in my life.

Nicole and Brad – I am grateful for you

There are some friendships that last a life time, no matter how long it is between visits or conversations, you just pick up where you left off. That’s how we are. We’ve known you two for more than 25 years now, we’ve had babies together, moved houses and towns, demolished countless bottles of alcohol between us, cooked amazing feasts for each other, played a million games of 500 together, baled hay, been on holidays, and you cared for our kids when they were babies. I am so grateful that you’re an intricate part of our lives. You guys are family! Our children adore you both, especially now they can share those bottles with you :) I am grateful for your support, your unwavering friendship and the longevity of our friendship – we’ve got history! You are our rocks, when the chips are down you’re always there, when there’s a celebration you’re always there and I love you both long time and forever.

Posted by jeanne at 24 January 2012

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Hazel TreloarDay 24 of the Ultimate Blog Challenge – my theme for this month is gratitude for the special people in my life.

Hazel – I am gr8ful for you

Hazel – Grandma as you’re better known. I am grateful that I’m part of your family. I’m grateful for all the Christmas parties over the years and the early years on the farm. We used to love to visit you and Poppa there. The kids stilll talk about finding Easter Eggs in the Magic Rainforest that you created, vomiting grandma’s terrrible soup and gorging on your delicious hot pikelets, walking for ages up the hill to the swearing tree – just to swear, lying under the mango trees on a hot summer’s day, swimming in your pool and playing with your button collection. I am grateful for the oasis you created and the magic you brought to our children’s lives, I’m grateful that you’re my mother in law, for your encouragement and support over the years and even for your nuttiness. Thank you. I love you Grandma Hazel x